Recently my husband and I decided that we did now want our children around his brothers fiancee. Because the fiancee lives with the inlaws(my husbands family) we were honest with them and told them we would prefer they visit the children at our home and no overnight visit would be allowed. His parents became very angry and accused us of keeping the children from them My MIL even posted a very rude and personal comment on Facebook. My husband and I were very hurt and confused by the way they reacted and we have not spoken to them since then. They have basically told him that because of his actions they no longer want to speak to him.
|You need to respect what your husband decides to do. He has a much longer history with them and is the one that is affected much more than you are. Bottom-line you need to support your husband because that is what he needs from you and also because it will make your marriage stronger. Focus on the good family relationships you do have and watch for olive branches to be given by his family so that maybe peace can be restored eventually.|