YOU are keeping him stuck…


 

QUESTION:

My 21-year-old son since he left school at 16 has had no job for longer than 2 months he smokes skunk and deals in it and I have bailed him out on many occasions. He is a good lad apart from the above and helps me in the home he is clean in himself but he hangs around with other lads who smoke and deal I have tried everything but I do not know what else to do
 

 

ANSWER:

You have to decide if you want this boy living in the house with you for the rest of your life or you actually want him to take responsibility for his life. Living with you allows him the freedom to not grow up and be mature and responsible. While he is sweet and clean and helps around the house, you are keeping him stuck by letting him live in your home while having bad behavior. Ultimately the choice is yours. If stop enabling him and make him support himself he will thank you in the long run.

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