Once accepted, don’t complain…


  Question:

I have been with my fiance for 4 years now, we are very in love, but his mother and sister are extremely different than us, what I mean by that is his sister has always been the favorite, she gets anything she wants from her mom everyday, by the way they live together. His mother and sister both treat me like I’m dirt, and I know they only tolerate me. They will literally ignore me when I’m around, I cannot take much more of this, what do I do?

   
Answer:

I’m not sure there is much you can do. If your boyfriend has known this for 4 years and done nothing about it, then you may want to rethink your marriage to him. If he has done something and they haven’t changed then you have a choice to make. You either tolerate it knowing that once married things will stay the same or this is a deal breaker. If you choose to marry then don’t complain about the behavior. It is something you can walk away from now. When you are married you shouldn’t walk away from it because you have made a committment.

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