|Question:||My husband and I are separated. Separation set to last six months. Bad problems – verbal and mental abuse. We are currently in counseling – both together and separately. Problem is I just found out that my brother-in-law (my husband’s sister’s husband) is sexually attracted to me. I think I feel the same way. I know its probably hopeless. His marriage is not in good shape either. We have been confiding in eachother. What is going on here?
What is going on is that you are purposely making your marriage not work. If you put as much energy into your marriage as you are doing with your brother-in-law your marriage probably wouldn’t be in the type of trouble it is in. I suggest you stop immediately what you are doing with brother-in-law. It will only result in devastation for the family at large.